How To Be Positive After A Breakup?
It is important to understand that your breakup is not the end of the story.
It is just the end of a part of the story.
And everything indeed happens for good.
If you carefully analyze your relationship, you will see what was not working between you two.
May be the drama they brought into your life, or may they always got late at important events.
Our mind tricks us by remembering all the good times that you had together, and you miss them more.
But the reality is things just didn’t workout between you two.
And not everyone you meet are meant to be in your life forever.
So, accept that whatever happened, happened for good.
Now you have all the time to take care of yourself, you can whatever you want, meet whomever you want.
You are not bounded by any restrictions and are free!
How Do I Move On After A BreakUp?
Moving on from a break-up is not easy. It takes time to accept the break-up.
And it may take you a few weeks or few months.
But once you have accepted it and moved on, you will realize it is the best thing that happened to you.
Here are some tips you can follow to make the move on process easy:
Cut Contact For Sometime
Cutting contact with your ex can make the healing process fast.
Just stop texting and calling them.
If they contact you, tell them that you need time to heal and want some space now.
Hopefully they understand and stop contacting you.
If not, block them for sometime until you are ready to talk to them.
Make A Note Of Things That Didn’t Work
As mentioned earlier, our mind tricks you by making us remember all the good time you had together.
Thus you start missing your ex and this makes moving on even more difficult.
So, here is what you can do.
Create a list of all the the tings that didn’t work between you two.
May be it was lack of commitment, or may be it was just one sided love.
Whatever it was. Just write them down and read them whenever you miss your ex or want to contact them.
Talk To Friends And Family
Sharing your grief and frustration with someone can really help you over come the pain of breakup.
Talk to your friends and family members. They are there for you in the hard times
Share what you are going through. Sometimes we need someone just to hear what we say to lighten up heart.
Pick New Hobby
Did you always wanted to learn piano? Or may be try rock climbing!
Guess what? You have all the time in the world to try new things and do experiments.
Pick new hobbies, go on trips with friends, join dance classes.
Work On Self Improvement
Breakups are called Break-Ups for a reason.
It is meant to push you up. And if it is dragging you down, that means it is not serving it purpose.
Work on self improvement and be the better version of yourself.
Hit Gym, learn new language or go on trips with your friends.
Improve your life so that you can tell yourself what you got from the breakup.
Conclusion
We hope that these breakup affirmations will help you heal.
It might take some time. A few weeks, may be months but eventually you will over come this and realize whatever happened, happened for good.
Take Care.
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